A person who has GOOD fashion sense and style means they can wear clothes they bought years ago, and it will still look great on them!
A naturally Stylish person born with an intuitive sense of style can also pull it off since they have the attitude, ease and self-confidence to do it.
Today i am wearing something bought at a high street shop in 🇬🇧London!
STYLE = TIMELESS whereas trends and fads may change over the years.
🇬🇧🇫🇷Jane Birkin and Audrey Hepburn are 2 of my fashion icons whose style i love!
Audrey Hepburn is also one of my favorite Actresses, along with Katharine Hepburn.
They’re very different tho and not related.
Both women of SUBSTANCE, intelligence, talent and grace whom i respect and admired since a little girl!
(They also dressed elegantly, unlike modern pretty girls & women who apparently think showing more skin and body parts make them alluring and sexy!
Not surprisingly, boys & men love it tho!)
i vehemently *DISAGREE* and are *NOT* friends with these kinds of desperate for male attention pretty girls nor women!
SEXY > Trampy TACKY
When you talk to people and they like you, you can negotiate a GOOD deal!
LIKABILITY (and being SMART) is important in life, in many capacities!
i wanna wear a certain sexy dress for New Year’s Eve this year so thinking of a trial test run for a party of artsy, creative, smart, nice, interesting, helpful, lovely people i like! 🎊🎉 🍹🥃🍸🍾🥂
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i like 🇫🇷French (PFW) and 🇬🇧British (LFW) Fashion Designers/Houses and their designs & style the MOST!
And have irl friends and know people who are Photographers & Designers who have been part of both 🇫🇷PFW and 🇬🇧LFW.
But i also have Fashion Designer friends and know other Fashion Designers who have designed for or/and showcased at NYFW.
The common thread is i am friends with and know people who are all TALENTED, SMART and INTERESTING, not shallow nor stupid!
Happy that there’s another nostr girl into fashion!
i think *STYLE* is very important!
In the real, Shallow World 🌎🌏🌍, external and PHYSICAL appearances are how others get cues about a person and *HOW* their 🧠 brain makes a quick assement of what kind of person you may be!
What you wear sends a message!
If you’re the kind of person who ONLY wears expensive designer clothing and lots of 💎 bling, that says a lot about who you are and your life value system!
Or if you’re dressed like a slob, always wearing the 🔂 same t-shirt, that also conveys a message!
Stylish but not shallow = COOL!
FYI: i won’t reply nor make comments on posts because of previous experiences with BAD interactions!
i may DM tho, if feel compelled or to communicate DIRECTLY with 1 person.
📷 Taken last week and my body still adjusting to vast time difference.
i am still thinking about my recent trip and what i saw and experienced. Actually haven’t had time nor chance to look at all the pics i took yet.
But thankful for all the nice, lovely people i met and conversed with, people with *GOOD* energy & vibe!
(i am not a hippy dippy kinda person, only slightly granola but super INTUITIVE and can sense/intuit things that most people can’t.)
i like witty & clever sense of humour, like that of 🇮🇪🏳️🌈Playwright & Writer Oscar Wilde, who wrote “The Importance of Being Earnest” and “An Ideal Husband”, one of which i have seen in 🇬🇧London with other people!
A Room With a View!
(Also, 1 of my favorite 🇬🇧Merchant Ivory 📽️ films and i have read all of 🏳️🌈🇬🇧E.M. Forster’s books for enjoyment as a teen-20s girl.)
Lovely place for thinking, chilling, 🖋️ and enjoying peace & SOLITUDE!
Too bad a Hotel Staff person was complicit in my being ripped off tho which made me 😡
However, i would definitely recommend staying there!
And now that i have a lovely & helpful local friend whom i am *STILL* in touch with and she speaks excellent English, may go there again, in the future. Don’t know. . . Perhaps.
i did not find the people to be very warm nor friendly aside from her, and i really did *NOT* appreciate getting ripped off several times!! 😡😡
Also, it’s not a place i felt comfortable walking around by myself at night as a woman!
SAFETY is THE *MOST* IMPORTANT THING for females!
This is something most males do *NOT* have to think about nor consider at all when they leave their home base.
But ALL girls & women DO — if they are smart! — and especially if they are physically attractive (pretty) and have had problems with *UNWANTED* male attention for years, being physically followed by a group of (musician) boys during uni and had to walk elsewhere, so they wouldn’t know where i lived, etc.
i am VERY *AWARE* OF MY ENVIRONMENT & SURROUNDING AT ALL TIME!
Sketchy males, i NOTICE! Intense staring by strangers, especially by males — yes, i notice it!
My keen sense of intuition & instincts tells me *IF* i may be in danger!
And yes, i will 🥊 any personal safety threats to me as a woman, will press charges and CREEP will also get sued by me!
i am helping my lovely girl friend and her lovely & mature SMART 💻 Geek boyfriend with potential visit abroad across the pond in the future, one of the many topics the three of us discussed the other night at a pub.
“In real life, it’s ALL about *WHO* you know!”
Getting a 🇬🇧BAFTA 🏆 would be 1 of my goals and i do have a very talented UK guy friend in the industry.
He has worked on many films that EVERYONE in the 🌎🌏🌍 world would have heard of and most have seen — major Hollywood films.
i met him while visiting my UK BFF & his gf.
He’s more of a rebellious 🏍️ kind of a guy. Fun lad!
Years ago, i asked his permission to use his name for a short story as a character because i just like how name sounds.
But story is getting too complex so ON HOLD for now, and it will be better as a novel or screenplay for a film.
i can visualize it. It’s set in the future, a la film 📽️ “Blade Runner”
Finally saw the film 📽️ “Saltburn”, directed by Oscar Winning Director 🇬🇧Emerald Fennell.
i would describe it as a fked-up 🇬🇧“Brideshead Revisited” with a twist.
Impeccable acting, gorgeous costuming, location, great music scoring & fantastic everything.
Gothic & sexy alluring — this is Indie film at best!
🇬🇧Charli xcx - “Apple”
🇬🇧Peter Gabriel - “In Your Eyes”
(With scenes from Cameron Crowe film 📽️ “Say Anything” version)
Lloyd Dobler! ❤️😍
Fashion magazine from place i LIKE, with fantastic design, and lovely, 🕊️☮️ peaceful, friendly & helpful people and where i have guy friends!
i REALLY *LIKE* the beautiful place and its people!
So i’ll definitely be seeing & hanging out with guy friends there and visiting the place again, soon in the future!
Taylor Swift - “loml”
Taylor Swift, SELF-MADE Billionaire, wealthy via her TALENT is the number 1 woman i *RESPECT* in the 🌎🌏🌍 world!
Taylor is an excellent role model for young girls, always CLASSY, naturally pretty and SMART, a sincere & nice person, a woman of substance & intellect, who used her genuine talent since a child, creativity, life experiences, imagination and original vision to become a global force with tremendous influence, power and economic impact.
And so much more INTERESTING than yet another pretty girl with nothing more to offer than her body to become some man’s girlfriend or wife!
Ladies!
If you are pretty *and* SMART, you have a LOT of options in life!
Always remember that and do *NOT* settle for someone unworthy of your time, energy and efforts!
Walk away and find people who are deserving of who you are, your ✨magic and treat you well!
Observation since i was a kid:
Rarely is a girl who is very pretty also VERY SMART!
⬆️ Physical Beauty = ⬆️⬆️ Shallowness
⬆️⬆️ Stupidity
&
⬇️ Kindness/Niceness
⬆️⬆️ Pretty = ⬇️⬇️ Brain Capacity 🧠 cuz she can get by on her looks!
i think it’s very sad but it’s the reality!
Most Boys & Men do not care tho *IF* a Girl & Woman is smart as long as she is PRETTY, the number 1 factor they are attracted to and seek out!
CHLOÉ - “BE KIND TO ME”
Genre: Electronic 🎹🎧
(Track 18 from 🇨🇦Junior Boys album, BODY LANGUAGE SIX - MIXED BY JUNIOR BOYS)