Marriage was always a social, ethical and moral contract. Those things are gone. I wish it was not the case.
Waiting for the mega spike lower. It's going to be in the trillions.
Oh for sure.
I'm early 30s and 25% of my good guy friends have already been put through the divorce wringer. No other reason beyond "my feelings changed". Marriage is dead.
We're heading towards the "animal kingdom" type world. In the West at least.
And don't get me wrong I'm all for commitment, loyalty and marriage. Those are great things. But why would I involve the state or the church in that with a contract?
People should get married without there being a contract involved.
Right that mediating has totally messed the whole system up. There is no "marriage" in the West anymore, it's all performative.
Tax and insurance are some mild benefits. I think some sort of dowry system like in the East is much more constructive than the Wests system currently.
The first thing people do when they get married now is head to the DMV.
The first thing people do now when they get divorced is get a lawyer.
I don't see how the church is involved.
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Exactly, if you talk to anyone in their 80s and 90s they will tell you about how the church was where the community gathered and social contacts were formed. That was really how marriages stayed together because both parties would be ostracized if they split.
We essentially need a new church for the current generation, not sure if it exists.
Marriage itself is a religious institution. The church has no social power anymore so marriage has no meaning anymore. All the social power belongs to the state; so currently marriage is between you, your partner and the state. Yikes.
I would consider "marriage" currently more of a domestic partnership with the state overseeing your relationship.
Appreciate it dude. Keep your head high brother, we're not in Kansas anymore. 🤙🫡👊
It used to be a better situation because the church was a community place where morals were constructed. There was a high social cost to separating. Now it's none of that.
Currently marriage is a contract between two people with the state being the arbiter.
This whole conversation is exactly why marriage is in a nosedive. It was never about "love" or anything like that, it's status and money.
Why would I want to play into that fiat game?
Marriage was ruined once the state got involved.
Do you take the ladder or the stairs up to the cab? Sweet rig!
When are they changing to EVs?
This era of Hollywood will go down in history as some of the worst movies ever made.
There will have to be a whole new "Hollywood" being built somewhere else. The creativity is gone.
Retirement accounts will be worthless where we are going.



