illegal content being removed is understandable, but define inappropriate in terms of freedom of speech. What one person thinks is inappropriate is wildly different than the next person's opinion. You either support free speech for all or for none, there is no middle ground

huh? Relay owners have full ownership of whatever is stored on their relay. If they don’t like something, they can remove it. You can post whatever you want to your own relay and if you make it public, anyone can subscribe to it.

Relays removing content they don’t like is not censorship resistance.