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🇬🇧The University of Cambridge alum English Banker also got ZERO action on the 2nd date — not even a 🫂hug, 🤝handshake nor kiss — at a restaurant in 🇬🇧London, altho he did try VERY HARD to convince me to spend the night with him.

NOPE, I don’t fking think so cuz I’m *NOT* a tart 🥧, so went to hang with Fashion Designer & Illustrator girl friend instead after dinner.

And I do *NOT* like hugging stranger males nor stranger anyone, unless they are an *exceptional* person whose vibe/energy I *REALLY* like via intuition and after GOOD conversation!

(I will, however, allow 😘💋kiss bisous sur la joue from 🇫🇷French people tho!)

🇬🇧_____ who was obviously VERY INTELLIGENT, attractive and likes 🇬🇧Radiohead loved the jacket I was wearing and gushed about it, which I bought on a clearance sale years before at a posh department store somewhere.

Pulitzer Prize Winner Kendrick Lamar obvi *WINS* the diss battle! 🏆🥇🥊 🎊🎈😅

Kendrick Lamar - “euphoria”

https://youtu.be/fAqa1ozCuj8?feature=shared

Oh ok. Heard of him, not familiar with his music nor would I recognize him.

I may or may not have had a date with a 🇬🇧The University of Cambridge alum English Banker at the 🇬🇧Barbican, in which he was a perfect gentleman as in ZERO action!

Haha, I have just hit 37 on the number of countries so far — globally 🌎🌏🌍 — of boys/men who have chatted me up, hit on me, like LIKED me, attempted to woo me. . . pretty certain there’s more tho! 🤔

Actually wrote it down on 🖋️🗒️ since too many for me to do a count in my head.

I guess international appeal is a good thing!

GOOD for future book and creative project sales and tours!

One guy gave me free cuppa ☕️ at the 🇬🇧Barbican in London, twice!

Hmm. 🇨🇦Drake was famous first?

Anyway, as mentioned, until he also wins a Pulitzer, Kendrick Lamar is the better Hip Hop Rapper for me!

Great 📽️ Recommendation:

Starring a young 🇬🇧Kate Winslet & 🇳🇿Melanie Lynskey by 🇳🇿🎥🎬Director Peter Jackson

(Based on a true story that happened in 🇳🇿New Zealand.)

https://youtu.be/kJ2yZjnPwQc?feature=shared

So basically, being born a 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️gay, poor, Black male = *WORST* and *MOST* DIFFICULT life card!

And there is definitely a *HIGH* CORRELATION of socioeconomic status, poverty and class level with people likely to develop mental health challenges, as well as race/ethnicity; and sexual orientation.

Those who have experienced LOT OF STRESSFUL experiences and in environment which they have *NO* control over = ⬆️⬆️⬆️⁤⁣ ⬆️

Actually, there are people who can’t recall details of traumatic incidences they may have gone through — REPRESSION of painful memories because they can’t deal with it YET — and a LOT of them use alcohol or/and drugs to suppress those painful memories of BAD experiences!

The trauma is always there tho — just secluded in the edge of the mind — so they are self-medicating with vices that can be very addictive and harmful.

These people NEED to see a Therapist and a licensed medical Doctor because they need to be put on meds to help them.

Talk therapy is *NOT* enough since they have PTSD and their brain needs to be re-wired.

I think the use of MDMA in a doctor prescribed setting and situation would definitely be helpful for them.

Obviously, I have NEVER tried molly, but I know people who have!

Fyi: For those of you who have *NEVER* experienced being attacked or harassed — mostly straight white males! — that is *NOT* something a Person who has experienced it will *EVER* forget!

Some of them will NEVER recover from the traumatic experience of it!

I suggest they seek a Therapist, ASAP!

Oh and just cuz a girl changed her hair color/style does *NOT* mean I don’t recall that she was part of the group who attacked/harassed me before!

I see you, sweetheart!

You’re *NEVER EVER* getting an invite to any FAB soirees that my VERY GOODLOOKING (NO facial hair but very nice longer hair!), Stylish, Brilliantly SMART, INTERESTING, Creative & Innovative, Kind, Very Nice, Thoughtful & Considerate, Witty, VERY Wealthy and Talented Husband and I will be having nor anything to do with me!

And I *DO* mean that!

I have AMAZING face recall!

So, I see that someone who has attacked me before — caused by *NOT* that pretty but VERY INSECURE and got off on *Male* 👀👀 ATTENTION Seeking 22 Year Old Popular Girl who was SUPER FKING RUDE & an ARROGANT little bitch to me but hid what she was REALLY TRULY like til her behavior was exposed — is *STILL* one of my Followers!

I would like her GONE and *UNABLE* to follow me! 😡

So, anyone who *INTENTIONALLY* ATTACKS or HARASSES another Nostr user should *NOT* be able to follow nor see their posts, FOREVER!

I think this would be a VERY *USEFUL* function, especially for girls, women, POCs, 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ people!

Replying to Avatar Dave🐸

ok, the universe is fucked up lol:

https://youtu.be/yyr2gEouEMM

Alexis:

https://youtu.be/yyMNSyKvfsk

Thinkboi time:

Bitcoin is hip-hop, skateboarding and Taylor Swift. 😂

Actually, I just watched the “Poetic Justice” m/v and realized hadn’t seen it before, only heard the album the song is from.

So 🇨🇦Drake and Kendrick Lamar were close enough that Drizzy collaborated on a song with him and made appearance in the music video!

Kendrick Lamar looks SO YOUNG! And his hair is completely different than now!

Replying to Avatar Dave🐸

ok, the universe is fucked up lol:

https://youtu.be/yyr2gEouEMM

Alexis:

https://youtu.be/yyMNSyKvfsk

Thinkboi time:

Bitcoin is hip-hop, skateboarding and Taylor Swift. 😂

Hey, I just watched the skateboarding video. Loved it, thanks!

I’m certain Alexis Sablone and I know mutual people!

My Architect guy friend has exhibited at the Guggenheim in NYC, which is shown in the video.

There’s a great space in the South Bank area in 🇬🇧London that lot of skaters hang out.

I took some pics of a girl skater when I was there years ago.

You should check it out if haven’t:

https://southbank.london

Like you, I also assume people are as honest as me but that’s rarely the case!

Most people lie!

It also definitely depends on the society/culture tho and how trusting of a country it is.

Apparently, 🇩🇰Denmark ranks VERY HIGH in Trust, overall.

The Key = FIND *genuinely* nice and honest people who are WORTHY of your time and being in your life. Filter heavily!

Similar people are attracted to your vibe/energy so QUALITY attracts QUALITY!

Oops, that “The Daily Show” episode was actually from 1 year ago, April 2023!

Haha, I only saw it recently tho cuz too busy!

Desi Lydic, my FAVORITE person from “The Daily Show”, from last week.

*NOT* at all eye opening for me!

My BIGGEST dream since I was a wee little lass has always been, of course, to score MANY 🇫🇷Birkins from my VERY WEALTHY & IMPORTANT Husband!

😍👜👜👜👜👜👜 👜👜👜👜👜😍

I have, in fact, negotiated terms and was able to score 50% pay ⬆️ increase — cuz I was trying to fking LEAVE — back in the days of a VERY VERY SUPER STRESSFUL place with a person who had a NEVERENDING Task 📋 List which would SUPER OBNOXIOUSLY TURN RED, and he even STILL used his damn 🇨🇦BlackBerry when seriously & gravely ill!

After VERY SMART negotiation by me, I stayed there for a bit longer, on *MY* terms, but I was MUCH MUCH MUCH HAPPIER & SO MUCH *LESS* STRESSED after leaving!

Company still took advantage of me tho and allowed things which could have caused lasting trauma and damage, which I am VERY THANKFUL that it did not happen!

And yep, a guy — a friend’s brother — has told me that I was “bossy” in my 20s, but that’s because I wasn’t the typical STUPID & PRETTY Frou Frou 🎀 💅🏼👙 Girl!

Yes, I am assertive and have NO PROBLEM saying NO, *unlike* People Pleasers (TERRIBLE for dating cuz their inability to say “No” affected ME 😡!) or most girls & women!

https://youtu.be/Mzg6Sdqsysc?feature=shared