Stage Three: The Cynical Skepticism Stage
You've studied so hard and put so much effort into your trading and this universal failure in the patterns only when you take them causes you to feel betrayed by the market, the books and materials and gurus you tried to learn from.
Everybody claims their ideas lead to profitability, but every time you take a trade, it's a loser, even though the setups all worked perfectly before you played them.
And since one of the most painful experiences is to fail when success looks easy, this embarrassment is transformed into anger: anger at the gurus, anger at the vendors, anger at the writers, the seminars, the courses, the brokers, the market makers, the specialists, the "manipulators".
What's the point in trying to analyze and improve your trading when so many dark forces are out to get you?
This excuse-driven blame game is a dead-end viewpoint, explaining many of the things you find on message boards. Those who can't pull themselves out of it will quit.
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Stage Two: The Hot Pot Stage
You scan the markets every day. After a while (sometimes a good long while), you notice a particular phenomenon that appears regularly and seems to "work" pretty well.
You focus on this pattern. You begin to find more and more instances of it, and all of them work! Your confidence in the pattern grows, and you decide to take it the next time it appears. You take it, and almost immediately your stop is hit, and you're underwater for the total amount of your stop-loss.
So, you back off and study this pattern further. The very next time it appears, it works. And again. And yet again. So you decide to try again, and you take the full hit on your stop-loss.
Practically everyone goes through this, but few understand this is all part of the win-lose cycle.
They do not yet understand that loss is an inevitable part of any system, strategy, method, or other approach; there is no such thing as a 100% win approach.
When they gauge the success of a particular pattern or setup, they get caught up in the win cycle. They don't wait for the "lose" cycle to see how long it lasts or what the win/lose pattern is.
Instead, they keep touching the pot and getting burned, never understanding that it's not the pot (pattern/setup) that's the problem but their failure to understand that it's the heat from the stove (the market) that they're paying no attention to whatsoever.
So, instead of trying to understand the nature of thermal transfer (the market), they avoid the pot (the pattern), moving on to another pattern/setup without bothering to find out whether or not the stove is on.
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"6 Stages Of A Trader"
If we are to become great traders, we will experience some variation of all six of these stages.
Being aware of these stages can help you identify where you are now and where you need to eventually be.
(Which stage are you currently at?)
Stage One: The Mystification Stage
This is where the neophyte trader begins.
He has little or no understanding of market structure. He has no concept of the interrelationship among markets, much less between markets and the economy.
Price charts are a meaningless mish-mash of colored lines and squiggles that look more like a painting from the MOMA than anything that contains information.
Anyone who can make even a guess about price direction based on this tangle must be using black magic, or voodoo.
However, as one begins to observe, read, and study, the mess may begin to resolve itself into something that may make sense. Sort of... 😉
Forget talent!
Just show up every day and grind until you reach mastery!
If you never give up, it will happen to you!
The gap between your current trading results and where you want them to be is called discipline, focus, and consistency.
Let your risk management be your super power.
Every dollar is a brick.
The larger your building, the stronger your foundation in the quest for freedom.
Guard your structure, and protect your bricks by cutting your losses as planned and keeping losses small.
So many people from your past know a version of you that doesn't exist anymore.
Growth is beautiful!
“When you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive, to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love.”

Life doesn't reward you for your suffering.
It rewards you for making the right sacrifices
You're not struggling with trading; you're on the journey to becoming an expert.
You can complicate this journey by trading with large positions (which stirs up strong emotions).
Or you can simplify it by trading with smaller positions (which promotes a more objective approach).
The choice is yours.
A trade can only have 4 outcomes
1⃣A small win
2⃣A big win
3⃣A small loss
4⃣A big loss
Your PRIMARY goal is to eliminate #4 as a possible outcome.
Do this and you might just make it.