it has to be a paper at least
it needs to be read by irl eyes first
i need the backing of some of the wisest before i place it on the internet
i really do mean catastrophic wreckage
i really do mean i cant attempt this on nostr
as in: i am entirely unqualified to de-escalate this timebomb in my very own estimation i really would need more on paper validation & professors attaching their names to me to even try
but a lot of people have been very very very hurt like lives wrecked due to this so it really needs to be handled with kid gloves & prolly phd podcast people
a lot of these terms are very poorly constellated in my opinion
how they say:
the opposite of love is not hate it is indifference
the opposite of what 2024 calls a narcissist is not what 2024 calls an empath it is what 2024 calls a covert narcissist
^=>
most adult children have the realisation eventually:
oh my god i ~am~ my dad
oh my god ive ~become~ my mom
again, normal
again, a matter of degree
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the difference between typical archetypal dynamics & abuse is discerning the degree
most eldest children are the golden childen because they are the eldest
that is how much
do no harm
that is how difficult
not having tone/body language feedback is
ok now that said
official lurky turkey bye
shhhhhhh
ala: i would make very sure i was sending myself to prison for the rest of my life.
never would be underhanded about it. never would ask another soul, another person, to carry that.
also, if i wanted someone to murder someone else i would literally send you a certified letter from me thru the mail & you would have to sign stuff that said i personally kidnapped you & tortured you into becoming a lunatic assassin & i take full responsibility as your doctor & you are my robo-dog
clarify:
never never would ask anyone to kill anyone for me.
metaphorically or actually or as a joke or in anger or in a video game.