nostr:npub17dndq8447clncxup0z6z2ps6c79ejq0fk38cza4352ksyyeryeaqcq6uhu Well the backup works, at least.

time for updates, might implode my instance to death, who knows.

nostr:npub16sz45sngz7k7ha48c9gekuaxc6gntujtynsfukdx6807m6lv7z5sgw378f No, it's completely unrelated to that. I saw an edit of a pokemon meme that replaced the word "pikachu" with "convicted felon" so "convicted felonchu" came to mind. Considering previous shit like Bundychu, it felt like the sort of thing that could fit in the Sonichu universe.

nostr:npub1f8ledq6ja34pn4504vdzzlrv70cu63hvzz5tka229prma42c677qkk7frq nostr:npub1m8d6pcrjhke48hasqgx7zkgjdt68u60px04frw753697mcmnyr3q365d6q sorry I forgot she transitioned, reporting myself rn

nostr:npub1m8d6pcrjhke48hasqgx7zkgjdt68u60px04frw753697mcmnyr3q365d6q nostr:npub1f8ledq6ja34pn4504vdzzlrv70cu63hvzz5tka229prma42c677qkk7frq I know John Mastodon, CEO of Mastodon, and you're posting on his network. I don't care what your friends told you - you can get banned from Mastodon, as you're about to find out.. You should not have fucking crossed me, I am more powerful than you can imagine.

nostr:npub1m8d6pcrjhke48hasqgx7zkgjdt68u60px04frw753697mcmnyr3q365d6q nostr:npub1f8ledq6ja34pn4504vdzzlrv70cu63hvzz5tka229prma42c677qkk7frq Reported for ableist hate speech. Enjoy your ban.

nostr:npub1m8d6pcrjhke48hasqgx7zkgjdt68u60px04frw753697mcmnyr3q365d6q Yeah well there's only supposed to be a single newline in between each sentence and yet here you are using two

nostr:npub1m8d6pcrjhke48hasqgx7zkgjdt68u60px04frw753697mcmnyr3q365d6q there are almost as many genders in the world as there are characters in your username

nostr:npub1m8d6pcrjhke48hasqgx7zkgjdt68u60px04frw753697mcmnyr3q365d6q go back to reddit

I feel like recent drama is a pretty good example of why, even though nonbinaries fall under the trans umbrella, they shouldn't always refer to themselves as "trans" - and especially avoid using terms that are commonly understood to refer to binary ftm and mtf trans people, like "transman" and "transwoman". I remember having a discussion about this a few years ago which pretty much concluded with "all nonbinaries are technically trans" but I feel like there needs to be a bit more nuance to it than that.

It's a pretty complicated subject though. Like on one hand, most nb's aren't visibly trans and therefore don't experience problems visibly trans people experience, but on the other hand there are binary transgenders who are pre-transition or pass well or whatever else - should they also not refer to themselves as trans? That would be a pretty absurd claim to make. But on the other hand, I don't think a pre-transition trans person can really explain exactly what a transitioning trans person is going through, so it'd be wrong for them to talk over someone suffering through those issues - because both groups have their own specific issues.

Anyway my point is, I'm nonbinary, and I used to consider myself as trans, but I prefer not to refer to myself as "trans" anymore because I believe that it's not really my label to use. It carries a significant number of implications with it, most of which don't apply to me. If I were to go around doing transphobic shit and excusing it because I'm nonbinary and therefore technically fall under the trans umbrella, that would be pretty absurd, since it's basically just a technicality. I'm sure a lot of cis and even nonbinary people would accept that excuse, but I'm also sure it'd piss off like 99% of actually trans people. I think it ultimately comes down to there being a difference between trans-as-in-transitioning, trans-as-in-transgender, and trans-as-in-not-cis. tldr, Semantics and language are gay (the bad kind) but people and identity are gay (the gay kind).