The only proxy that I would use is a local relay as a proxy app in the phone. Client only connects to that and that relay also serves as a local dabatase for events. Win-win. Third-party proxies know too much. No entity should have that amount of info on the user.

Coke sucks. Drink Pepsi.

Soda sucks. Drink water.

This is how we fund Nostr 😂