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When thigh-highs with skirt?

Women think that men want the same thing that women want and constantly try to “fix” men because women cannot imagine that men are happy with themselves - so women do things that they think men want them to do, women give men gifts that they think men should want, and women feel sad for men who don’t live the way women think men should want to live.

Embrace your manhood.

#women

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Husbands who assume responsibility for all things in their family life will gain the respect and adoration of the women around them (and may encounter negativity from the men who live with those women.)

If you are tired of nagging, lack of sex, relationship angst - take full responsibility for your situation.

When you take responsibility for all things, you free your wife to spend her energy to please you, rather than spending her energy to manage you.

#responsibility

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Free your wife of mental burden so she has space to be sexy.

The more energy she spends managing your life, the less energy she has to be with you.

#relationships #milf

Maybe they realized that living in a city with kids sucks and is relatively unsafe compared to mid class suburbs

Everyone was worried Trump would start WW3 and yet here we are

This is why I suggest not going for dinner for the first date(s). Yes guys can burn through a lot of money, and there are also way better activities.

Best is to have her to your house to help you cook dinner. You see if she know anything about the kitchen, she swoons for man who cooks, and you are in the comfort of your own home.

#dating

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If your relationship is totally vanilla and you are totally vanilla, you have got to stir up some shit in order to juice the sexual energy.

#attraction

Sent this one to my wife

Same actions will elicit different responses depending on your relationship to te woman:

If she is there with you, then yes - objectify her, make a video of her, slap her ass in front of everyone - she will adore you for it

If she is a stranger and you don’t have sexual rapport yet, you’re just a creepy weirdo who is recording women you don’t know

#women #attraction

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Now is the time to start thinking about her Christmas gifts:

🎁

1. Gifts (small) for her stocking

2. Gifts (homemade) “from the kids”

3. Gift (thoughtful) from you

4. Gift (sexy) from you

#relationships #manstr

Taking the initiative to talk with your wife BEFORE stress levels get out of control (leaving for a trip, busy day ahead, lots of logistics, etc) will go a long way to build trust and show that you are taking responsibility for your shared life (it is not soley her responsibility to get your family out the door). Talk about logistics, how is she doing, how can you support her - whatever fits the situation. You may have work or other priorities but she still needs to feel seen and supported.

Initiating a conversation, before she feels forced to come to you and ask for help, will remove a lot of angst and resentment from the situation.

#responsibility #relationships

So far this week:

Wife texted me on her way home from appointment, asked if I was available for her, 🍖

Wife came into my office naked, at the end of the work day, 🍖

Wife kissed me in the kitchen, I put her hands in the counter, lifted up the back of her robe, 🍖

#leadership #responsibility #attraction

The video shows constant transfers of power: Multiple guys recording on their phones, guy saying "ayy! ayyy! ayyyy!", barback staring at her, other bartender girls "ignoring" her - they are all giving the dancing bartender their power and she is feeding off of it.

Everyone in the scene is letting their attenion (power) flow towards the bartender, thus creating a TENSION. Whomever can break that TENSION and get the bartender's energy (her real energy, not her "paying for a drink" energy) to flow towards them will be the winner.

Everyone is giving their power to the bartender, and the bartender is then giving her power to the winner.

#power #attraction

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Attention is her currency, her power. All the guys at the bar giving her attention, making videos, leaving her $5 tips for being practically naked and acting like a slut - but in the end she’ll give her number to the guy who leaves her a 25¢ tip and complains about this drink, then he won’t call her. 🧠

#attraction #women

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Women want to live in a fantasy, a movie, where they are skinny and eat whatever they want. You can join her movie and get wrecked, or bring her into your movie with your rules and live happily ever after.

She doesn’t care what kind of movie (action, romance, porn…) she lives in, she is just struggling to it up on her own until she finds someone to lead and direct her.

#women #leadership

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When she is being helpless and needy, give her what she needs. She requires gentle care and attention. Treat her like a child - take care of her, pamper her, be gentle with her feelings and her abilities. She does not have the same mental resilience as a man. She is not capable of suppressing her feelings like a man is. She needs your love, support, and guidance during “tough” times (aka when she is an emotional train wreck).

#women #relationships