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An Capone 🌗
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There is no way to force a man to be free. Freedom always comes from within.

A slutty cactus - if a million pricks is what you desire

A minecraft turtle - If you want a cheap, yet fun costume that's easy to make

A nail - If you want to get hammered and/or nailed

Satoshi Ninjamoto - If you want to be cool

A fridge - If you want to be cooler

Ice Cube - If you want to be the coolest

The Michelin (wo)man - if you have access to a lot of tires

Manbearpig - if you feel like it

A snail - If you don't feel like leaving home

Duševní péče ano. Mluvit o problémech a emocích ano. Terapie ne.

I když se může zdát na první pohled že je to to samé, pro mne není. Co se tak bavím s lidmi, co na terapii chodí, nebo chodili, nepřijde mi to jako něco, co by mi pomohlo. Třeba jen měli oni smůlu na nevhodné terapeuty a/nebo já mám odlišné potřeby, ale v tomto ohledu prostě nejsem zrovna optimista.

In the context of this discussion, that doesn't really matter. In other context that may be a bit of a problem. but not in this context.

I am not going to change anything, especially not with an economics argument. (whic it wasn't, it was a sociologic/demographic argument)

What I am doing foing is simply describing why I believe, things will change organically. I don't need to be nor do I want to be a dictator to impose my will upon people. I just like analyzing what I see and using tools at hand to guess what the possible outcome is.

Also it's worth mentioning, that I won't get to benefit from what I say. Women, who already grew up and formed their personalities in the (past and) current environment are unlikely to change their subjectove preferences regarding dating significantly. What I expect to see is that my generation (currently around 30) will suffer from the demographic change unreflected in our social attitudes. The generation born in the 20s and farther will likely see and be a part of this culture shift because of the suffering my generation will yet have to endure.

That may change soon too. The way women look at dating now is unsustainable and will ultimstely hurt them. (actually it does so already)

Women not willing to date/marry down and getting equal pay/carreers leaves them competing with a decreasing pool of eligible men. Statistically more and more women will have to either settle for less than they think they deserve or suffer from loneliness. The math is simple and not in favor of women. Especially less desirable women will suffer disproportionately more than zheir more desirable counterparts unless they accept dating down as a legitimste option.

Build one then. That's not a technology thing, it's a wocial thing.

I for instance bullied pretty much my entire social bubble tonuse Signal to communicate with me. Even grandma uses it.

Once again, that's up to men. Once we figure out what is going on. we can do that. It's just that right now we believe it is not what we should do.

I so fucking hate speaking for a collective, but...

That's because of the implications. Imagine the backlash one would get for saying it is safer to a man's wealth, to keep his woman impoverished so that she is not in a position to leave him. (and not lose out in a major way

I can already hear the screaming already.