"Nothing ever goes wrong"
Nisargadatta Maharaj
Attain the 'Sushupti' (deep sleep) in the 'Jagrat' (waking) state and you become a Jnani.
~ Ramana Maharshi
The dreams are not equal, but the dreamer is one. I am the insect, I am the poet - in dream. But in reality I am neither. I am beyond all dreams. I am the light in which all dreams appear and disappear. I am both inside and outside the dream.
Nisargadatta, I Am That
Clear thinking and truth itself are some of the rarest commodities on the planet at the moment
Never try to stop the thoughts. If you try to stop the thoughts, they will become bigger and greater, and they will win, because the mind appears to be very powerful. Yet in reality the mind does not exist. There is no mind. There is no such thing as a mind.
Robert Adams
Rare in this world is he on whom impressions are not left of things which he has experienced or who does not desire things which he has not yet experienced.
~ Ashtavakra Gita 17.4
Health, wealth, beauty, and genius are not created; they are only manifested by the ARRANGEMENT of your MIND.
— Neville Goddard
Ok 
I believe it eventually comes down to acceptance, you just gotta accept whatever was and whatever is .
Acceptance could be the key
Either you live in the world of desire and fear, or you live in freedom.
Nisargadatta
"Each person comes into this world with a specific destiny - he has something to fulfill, some message has to be delivered, some work has to be completed. You are not here accidentally - you are here meaningfully. There is a purpose behind you." ― #Osho
As a man who has devoted his whole life to the most clearheaded science, to the study of matter, I can tell you as a result of my research about the atoms this much: There is no matter as such! All matter originates and exists only by virtue of a force which brings the particles of an atom to vibration and holds this most minute solar system of the atom together. . . . We must assume behind this force the existence of a conscious and intelligent Mind. This Mind is the matrix of all matter.
- as mentioned in The Nature of Matter (translated), a 1944 speech by Max Planck in Florence, Italy. 
Wisdom without love is like having lungs but no air to breathe.
Do not seek wisdom in order to acquire knowledge but in order to live and love more fully.
~ Adyashanti