𝐏𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐤𝐞𝐞𝐩 𝐬𝐚𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 '𝐬𝐨𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐬𝐤𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐬 𝐝𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫' 𝐮𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲:
- Get rejected in interviews.
- Get friendzoned.
- Remain stagnant in their career.
Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms-to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way.
Psychology says:
1. Don't overshare. Privacy is power. People can't ruin what they don't know.
2. Don't take everything personally. Not everyone thinks about you, as much as yourself does.
3. When you focus on problems, you will have more problems.
You become a master of your life when you learn how to control where your attention goes. Your energy is your currency. Value it.
Your past is in your head.
Your future is in your hands.
No matter how many mistakes you make or how slow you progress, you are still way ahead of everyone who isn't trying.
Nobody knows how hard you hustle for your goals, how lonely you feel at times, how much sleep you lose, or the daily pressures you face.
That's why you have to remember to do it for yourself, whatever that thing is.
The right doors won't open for you until you are the version of yourself that's supposed to walk through them.
HOW TO BOUNCE BACK
- Bad times don't last. Things always get better.
- Other people can help if you let them.
- Unhelpful thinking makes you feel more upset. Don't just dwell on the negatives.
- Nobody is perfect - not you or others.
- Concentrate on the positives and laugh when you can.
A seed grows with no sound, but a tree falls with great noise. Destruction has noise but creation is quiet. This is the power of silence, grow silently.
Rich people plan for three generations.
Poor people plan for Saturday night.
7 Money Rules Rich People Follow:
1) Never reveal your full income
2) Keep 1-5% of your net worth in cash
3) Don't spend more than 30% of what you earn
4) Have an emergency fund
5) Learn the tax code
6) Use debt to buy assets first
7) Have multiple income streams
By age 35, you should be smart enough to realize this:
1. Stay silent. Not everything needs to be said.
2. Silence is better than unnecessary drama.
3. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete. Competition is a weakness.
Life Hack:
Get in rooms where your dreams are others' realities.
Quickest way to improve your life.
LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO
• Not talk it through.
• Not do the things you can't stop thinking about.
• To put your energy in the wrong places.
• Spend it worrying about what people are saying when you're not around.
• Not say how you really feel.
In sales your vibe attract your tribe, focus being genuine, helpful and positive.
If you make the easy choices right now, your overall life will be a lot harder.
Accept both compliments and criticism.
Because a flower to grow takes both sun and rain.
Don't make yourself small for anyone. Be the awkward, funny, intelligent, beautiful little weirdo that you are.
Don't hold back.
Weird it out.
They don't know you personally, so don't take it personal.