writing books is something i kind of want to do. i know i have clean language and can tell a story. but it's a big task to write one, and you have to stay organised. i'm not sure how to pull that off with ADHD. i don't respond well to meds, so i don't take those and have to manage in other ways.

it takes two to dance the tango but i have three legs and this complicates things somewhat

nostr:npub1hdqs6f4hplrdacjy2cfekpaf7pwv9vuqpe5v3zt4laja9q3muqgq5pmqk0 yes! but he got off me now.

there are three rules in ADHD club. the first one is never concentrate. i forgot the two others.

nostr:npub1qfkcklnmes45z75y7y8dkud5yll8vp5eq5ysk9rmgqdxeasv8unsrfj6kq now i'm thinking of Frank Sinatra's song "I Concentrate On You"

Thor temporarily cat pillow - sorry for the inconvenience, but not sorry, says the cat

nostr:npub1qfkcklnmes45z75y7y8dkud5yll8vp5eq5ysk9rmgqdxeasv8unsrfj6kq i'll try to remember

nostr:npub1ljxdldrq885zamfkn82k7zcjs4lrsf9wykrh9e3hq4thh89vlzxsr83h7d heard it before. answer: yes and no.

ADHD club: now that we're all gathered here, let's get absolutely nothing done

there's the kind of #ADHD where you go around doing all sorts of risky shit and then there's the kind where you're just a big daydreamer and messyhead. i belong to the latter category, so i'm fairly harmless like that. but also ineffective, because nothing ever gets done. i just get lost in my own thoughts.

nostr:npub15dz2uaaxuzfv2pest4y7hhcnj72ty08grg65c0yg0n8j7ccwmwvslfh56t also there is some overlap between ADHD and psychopathy - i've met some people who have ADHD and also seemingly no boundaries

if i wrote a book on how to be awkward, it would be quite long

nostr:npub1ulntzghcwqnzdqdz4vsqhsshlulzsjsetwgzm76xcpss6nzjy9xs0yzdch no need to apologise, it was just an offer

nostr:npub1ulntzghcwqnzdqdz4vsqhsshlulzsjsetwgzm76xcpss6nzjy9xs0yzdch we can talk if you want. i've got time.

nostr:npub1ulntzghcwqnzdqdz4vsqhsshlulzsjsetwgzm76xcpss6nzjy9xs0yzdch sometimes it's hard, you don't always connect with people. but if what's on your mind is interesting to their mind, a conversation should happen naturally

nostr:npub1ulntzghcwqnzdqdz4vsqhsshlulzsjsetwgzm76xcpss6nzjy9xs0yzdch the only "thing" i know of in the online world that you can "do together" is gaming. as luck would have it, i don't have the patience for it. 🤷‍♂️

based on how random many business executive decisions are, i'm fairly convinced that a good number of them might have ADHD. but also confidence and some luck.

you're typically told to just grind through things, hang in there, etc, as a kind of encouragement.

for #ADHD people, this is basically an anti-encouragement, because we don't have the mental endurance. that's a major part of what ADHD is. it can really limit your ability to work.

you sort of need a stroke of luck in life if you have it and want to make it.

this need for all change to be dramatic is probably one of the reasons people with #ADHD are prone to taking risks - because it's the one way that gives them the power to get stuff done

when you've got #ADHD, fixing your life "one step at a time" is one of the hardest things to do - change has to be big and fix stuff now or it doesn't happen at all