I love you all but I kinda hate you all because I came to nostr for freedom tech social media and boom💥 now I’m buying raw milk and local bison meat after reading 5 books about bitcoin lmaooooo

No problem! It’s your special day I hope you enjoy it!

I’ll tell you one more thing though, holy shit it can be stressful. There are unlimited choices and options. It’s so fucking overwhelming. I don’t want to make assumptions about your perfect day, but for me- less was more. We didn’t need much of anything in the end, some family, a nice location, some decent clothes, some nice words to say, a good restaurant to enjoy some food after, and a nice place to spend the night together.

Less was perfect and more was stressful.

Recently married here- I don’t have any wishes for any change, ours came out perfect. The secret was to listen to our gut, communicate, and be flexible overall.

Biggest headaches- food, venue, guests, costs.

We went through a lot of iterations of what we wanted. Everyone is going to have different wants, and so communication with your fiance and prioritizing your collective wants will be important.

As we went through the process, we had to compromise based on various factors, our highest priority demanded compromise on other priorities. So that lead us down the path, and we wound up going where we tried to minimize compromising on other priorities in light of that.

So communicate your goals and priorities, walk the path in light of those priorities, and you’ll find your perfect wedding at the end of that pathway. :-)

i been on nostr so long that i read that as

Lightning Lightning Lightning

double-booking another wedding for the same day would suck

don't destroy the event organizer, they are people who hate bridezillas but cry when they get home

So, only PM’s are encrypted? Interesting. I was under the impression that ALL conversations were encrypted.

I saw ‘roast’ and I was scared but it’s honestly sweet 🥹💯🫂💜

🤣🤣😂🤣😂🫂 I could just imagine you taking notes ❤️‍🔥 amazing. One day I’ll order you a drink at the bar, watch me sweat trying to figure out what to say 🥲. I asked for rum and coke once - at uni I think it was - and he asked me which rum, and I said ‘the one pirates drink, please’ cos I didn’t know there was more than one. Also, why do they put dirty olives in the drinks 😭 is it to give it an earthy taste?

I recently learned why Bond likes it shaken not stirred 🔥

It's called a "folly".

They were toy buildings to showcase wealth.

Was expecting to get roasted, but it’s actually really charming 🥹 nostr:note18wg8vw9j870enramscnzmuffsmnxur08fk3d99390krsq3kd7m6qsfclqw

I had an accident on Aug 1st

Feel off my bike and broke my collarbone, had to get surgery 11 days ago

It will take around 9 to 12 weeks to fully recover

Oddly enough this isn't AI

What if people were like sourdough, and whenever we "rested", we just swelled up and spilled all over the place

Just a reminder that in The REAL World 🌎🌏🌍, it’s all about *WHO* you know!

If they like you and decide to help you, they can open doors that most people didn’t even know it existed!

And you don’t know WHO a person is or HOW actually important or influential they may be or how much power they may yield — especially if they are an unassuming, low key person — so i’d advise to treat EVERYONE politely, respectfully and with dignity, without being condescending nor snobby or arrogant.

Basically, treat others as how *YOU* wanted to be treated!

Also remember that if you intentionally take advantage of someone and treat them badly, they will *NEVER* forget it!

And you’ll probaby end up regretting it, especially if that (actually VERY POWERFUL & INFLUENTIAL) person decides to seek retribution or vengeance for *HOW* you treated them!

Karma!! 🔁

Pimms = gin? 🤯 wow, I’ve had gin before, and never knew.

Quite possibly a really silly note but I dunno much about alcohol 🙏🏽 always wondered how people go to the bar and order all these things and know whats in it. There must have been a class I missed in school or something.

It’s like when everyone suddenly knew how to tie their shoe laces and I was still using Velcro 🫠

Pimms = gin? 🤯 wow, I’ve had gin before, and never knew.

Quite possibly a really silly note but I dunno much about alcohol 🙏🏽 always wondered how people go to the bar and order all these things and know whats in it. There must have been a class I missed in school or something.

It’s like when everyone suddenly knew how to tie their shoe laces and I was still using Velcro 🫠