Oh no, this is embarrassing: I think I've finally found the problem and it has nothing to do with nostream. ๐ It seems the main reason of my outages have been too low limits in my NGINX configuration (worker_connections & worker_rlimit_nofile). But thanks to your help I have improved swap and memory efficiency on the way. ๐ค I am 99% sure the problem is gone now. I'll wait some days and then document my findings in the issue and close it. Thanks for your help!
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Glad you were able to solve it! ๐ If you get any more issues let me know.
That would be useful to mention in the README