Controversial take: I'm not here to build for the masses. I'm here to build for those who want to be free and have made the commitment to put in the effort to get there. The more you take responsibility for your life, the more freedom you get. And I would argue decentralized nostr is not for the masses. I'm fine with Primal and others building a centralized nostr for them as long as it plays nice with decentralized nostr.
Discussion
The masses under the control of a centralized authority, can pose a threat to the minority of freedom maxxers that you speak of.
The freedom maxxer should cater to the masses to keep the convenience of centralized authority unappealing to the masses
Thus keeping power away from centralized authorities that are easily corruptible.
Corruptible powers that could one day have power over the freedom maxxers because they didn’t care to secure the freedom and protection of the masses
Rule or be ruled
Help create a fair and free kingdom for all
Or fail to protect that
And live under an unfair and restrictive kingdom along with the masses