Defnitly this word has been abused in the last years mostly to creat a monstrous diabolic group. But to have a discussion, one has to define a definition. This is the general problem with language always. That one can only understand the other side, when the used words are describing the same thing.
I am not a fan of the word woke and am not using it usually. I just do not like it, when it is critizised for attributes, that are far away from widly consensed definitions as you brought it up for example.