I want this to work very badly, but after logging in with bunker I get nothing: 
Meanwhile Coop is having some fun trying to connect to all relays in existence for some reason I don't get: 
I want this to work very badly, but after logging in with bunker I get nothing: 
Meanwhile Coop is having some fun trying to connect to all relays in existence for some reason I don't get: 
oh, I believe this cause by gossip from nostr-sdk, but I didn't why you're connecting to bulk of strange relays. I wonder is there a way to add subscription_id to gossip log? cc nostr:npub1drvpzev3syqt0kjrls50050uzf25gehpz9vgdw08hvex7e0vgfeq0eseet
You can see the REQs using the debug log level
nostr:npub180cvv07tjdrrgpa0j7j7tmnyl2yr6yr7l8j4s3evf6u64th6gkwsyjh6w6 I've found the problem that cause this issue, I've a subscription to get metadata (contact list, metadata,...) for all users, but I didn't point a specific discovery relay for this subscription, so Coop will try to connect to all user's NIP-65 relays at the same time.
I didn't see this issue because I always use a test account which didn't follow anyone and message list is few. 🥲
Thank you for report this issue.
It's opening a truly massive number of connections though, and in the meantime it doesn't show any chats or any metadata. I have a ton of incoming messages, mostly spam, what can I do? Maybe I should be using spam-filtering relays?
I'm working on Chat Folders features, it will split your inbox into multiple folder, which will maybe includes:
- Inbox: all chats from people in your contact list or you have response
- Incoming: all chats not from "Inbox" but they have good reputation (verify vertex dvm)
- Strangers: others, mostly spam

That is good. But the problem is not that, the problem is that I think I have so many chats Coop tries to load them all at the same time and then I never get to even see anything? I don't know if that's what's happening really.