i checked the BIP-39 code and i played with an implementation and it does not preserve your bits
i see it says 256 bit entropy and 8 bits of check, and i presume this is right-handed encoding
yes, we could flip this around so the check is on the right side but then you simply don't have the option of doing this decoding as a series of deterministic shift-and-check operations (division, if you like), your idea rules this way of doing it out
your issues with the ordering of the encoding having a conflict with BIP-39 seems a bit silly because how would you confuse the two, and even if you did, so what, you threw away your bitcoin key and kept your nostr key? or vice versa? why would you do that?
if it is a hardware device, as if you are gonna have two, one with a bitcoin key and one with a far less valuable nostr key not be distinghuished somehow, i mean, come on, this is again user error