I have set up a self-rule for my interactions here on Nostr:

Will avoid at all costs falling into the trap to respond to gaslighting notes or comments that could lead to pointless discussions.

Many times you can notice that the goal of some answers or comments are just made to fire up. If I will have that feeling I will pass, ignore the comment or just "🫂" to that.. if needed hide the user (last resort).

I don't want to lose mental energy and positiveness in that if I can use the same time to read a good note and learn or debate and discuss with any nostriches.. even if with opposite views there is always a good way to communicate and expose our ideas without wanting to dismantle the others one.

Hope I can walk on this path as long as possible and enjoy the "pura vida" way.. 🍀☯️💜