Wait your teacher was giving you a back massage?? 🤔🤔🤔

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I avoided that when she mentioned it. I didn’t want her to realize some childhood trauma in a thread.

Is it not normal physical education stuffs? 😧😱 is normal no? We were all learning to massage each other after 🥹

and the teacher was just there watching y’all?

uhm, help, anybody?

Yeah 🥹 but she was helping us I think 🥲

maybe overreaction tho

still weird

Is it normal for a teacher to put a handcuff thing on your finger ? 😳

?!?!?

🫢 somebody tell her pls

He was a science teacher and he was just showing me how it worked I think 😳 I had a crush on him so I freaked out internally when he was holding my hand, but he just wanted to show me I think, then he left it on my finger haha that’s normal cos it was in front of a few others 🥹 Yeahh that one is normal, almost forgot about it haha

Like the Chinese finger cuff?

Nah this one was used for wrists usually but he put it around my finger instead, it’s like a zip tie 🤔 think that’s the right word 😅

Sounding so weird out of context.

I think he just wanted to show my table how strong the plastic could be cos I couldn’t take it off haha he was super young so maybe that makes it less sus too 🥹💯

Don’t transpose or borrow trauma where there is none.

Zip ties, large ones, can be used for handcuffs and there are very specific techniques to break them if you ever find yourself in one... But, uh... That's all I'm gonna say.

😱😱😱 did someone do that to you too Beave? I hope not 🫂💜

They might have wanted to be zip tied. 😉🤫🤷🏼‍♀️

Well, yeah. Training. It's also a good thing to know how to get out of in case you are abducted.

Wait… what?

It was to show our table how strong the plastic was 🥹🙏🏽

hahhahhha

Hmmm 🤔 So not like a proper massage then?

I don’t think so 🥹 my top was on ☺️💜 that’s normal right?

It’s difficult to give a good shoulder massage with a layer of fabric in between. I did have at least one teacher who would put their hands on your shoulders, maybe slightly rub them while looking at your work. I see people who sexualize contact or situations that were completely innocent and natural. My thing is was the touch wanted and was it comfortable? If it wasn’t were your boundaries respected immediately.

Ooo I think she went all over my back, I remember cos I went stiff as a board 😂🤣 I didn’t want it done, she just went for me first to show the others and I was like ‘oh okay’ 😅

Oh you were the demonstration dummy

Yes exactly! But he only showed a few of us 🥲 why are adults so strange for

If my kid told me this I would probably freak out ngl

It’s not normal for teachers to stare at you either is it? Or make you do physical education in your underwear in primary school when you purposefully forget your kit cos you don’t want to do it? Anyone offering therapy on nostr? 😂🤣 asking for a friend 🙏🏽

Eh we just did gym in our regular clothes and stunk the rest of the day. 🤣

This 👆🏻

It would be super sus if your top was off!

Also I had coaches who rubbed down muscles. It was completely normal and not sexualized at all. But I could see where it might sound weird.

Yeahhh she was just helping 🥹💯💯🙏🏽

Hahahhaha yeah, that was probably smarter 😅

I just want to live with the penguins 😭😭😭🥹🙏🏽

I’m leaning towards the penguins in the Galapagos. LFG!

Fairy penguins live in New Zealand 👀

I thought that was Australia

We do have some of them here in Tasmania, adorable!

🥰🤗

Let’s do it 😍😍😍🔥

love how pablo just appears out of nowhere pointing out the sus 🤣🤣🤣

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Yeahh I thought that was weird too 🤔🥹 but it’s okay cos she made everyone in class watch 🙏🏽 it was for physical education and she said I was stressed and was trying to help me I think.

WHAT?!

Is it bad? 😱😱 I didn’t enjoy it cos it was hard to relax with her touching me, she said I needed work cos I had a lot of built up tension and was trying to fix it, but then I figured it’s okay no? It’s not like we were alone 🥹 is it weird? I went to an all girl school so it’s not so strange right?

Maaaaaybe.

Hmmm 🤔 the fact you were uncomfortable is the most important thing to me. I will say I went to an all girls school. I feel like we were more touchy feely with each other. It was completely asexual though.

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