i think it's just because nostr users are mostly introverted, skeptical people, and there's not that many of that kind of people in the population, and because we are all here, the normies find not just things like no delete but no hidden hand guiding them to endless hyperstimulation uncomfortable

it's just not the place for sheep, we are not sheep, and loyalty to nostr is more important than endless waves of bullshit scandal and spectacles, we are here to have a conversation without any machines manipulating our feed