I like muun for a versatile hot wallet. Fees are a bit higher but it is able to go between onchain and lightning on the fly.
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If you want a self-custody wallet that runs on the actual Lightning network you should consider Phoenix. The upcoming version is looking really good.
I use Phoenix as well but I find it a bit more cumbersome sometimes. Maybe just me but I tend to have issues with it connecting to my node properly. Looking forward to trying the new version!
For a low stakes wallet with some pocket money, I like muun better since I don't have to keep separate onchain vs lightning wallet balances. I don't have to worry if I have enough balance in one or the other nor worry if a vendor only accepts one or the other. Downside is, as you say, it utilizes submarine swaps and not reaaaally lightning. But for a small daily balance, in fine w it.