A man that leads well maintains sexual attraction of his woman, and yes, that is illustrated in the bedroom.
Monogamy is not celibacy. No sex, no relationship.
A man trades loyalty for sexual devotion, respect, and followership.
His sacrifice has conditions. She follows his lead, keeps his house, raises his children, worships his cock.
Sexual gifts to secure the man, sexual gifts to retain the man. This is loyalty.
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Discussion
Our difference lies in the definition of worship. I agree with your counterpoint. Sexual activity and maintaining sexual attractiveness and service to one another is a natural and holy obligation.
1 Corinthians 7:4-6:
For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, wso that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
In that case we have too little disagreement to invest more time on this subject.