when it comes to things like introducing yourself to people and writing resumes, they always want you to tell a coherent story about a person that neatly fits into a box. and i don't fit neatly into a box because i can't really make up my mind about what it is i'm supposed to do. i'm 40 now and i'm still not very keen on filling a narrow role in someone's life or workplace as this or that person who does thing X and nothing else. i'm always looking for new things to do and my main trait is mental flexibility.