This is gaslighting!
The purpose of the soft fork is to preserve the monetary nature of the Bitcoin Blockchain by strengthening the consensus rules so that transactions containing spam (in the form of videos and photos) are rejected!
There are dedicated networks for such data, such as Nostr, I wouldn't want to store that type of bs on my bitcoin node!
A large enough acceptance of such a restriction of the consensus rules will push the miners to exclude spam transactions from the blocks they mine to avoid having their blocks rejected!
It's a win for bitcoin and the only losers are spammers!