Yeah I think I’m starting to mature. Still wanna enjoy life but focus more on the simple things.
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You can always enjoy simple things. Just shift your perspective. If you plan to do it with somebody else, make sure it's someone who's challenging you in a good way.
Hard to find people like that. Nostr is refreshing because it has that but spending time with normies sometimes feels like fleeting moments.
So don't spend time with normies. There are more interesting people you can possibly say hi one time in this lifetime to worry you'll deplete all of them.
Alike minds are like magnets, they find each other at the right time.
Do you meet random people like this?
Yes, all the time. Especially when I'm in the flow state. That's the sweet spot. When I'm grumpy or too analytical I give out bad vibes and I mostly interact with cunts. I've learned that's 100% me.
The only way you'll believe it is by trying experiments yourself. When you're not attached to the outcome, life finds a way to pleasantly surprise you. It works both with people and things.
Go to a library without a title in mind. Just browse casually. Your eyes will land on some books you won't necessarily buy otherwise. Something will catch your interest. It might be a word, color or reference you remembered from a conversation with someone.
Letting go is the only continuum. Took me a lot of time to grasp this well enough.