No one truly knows you apart from your partner if he or she is the one with you 24/7 like in my case. Im blessed that my partner made it possible for us to be together all the time. And im sooo grateful for that. The lifestyles that modern couples have isnt for me. I realise that after I got married. Its beautiful when you have your own budget or you share your income equally but this lifestyle brings you other negative sides. The worst one is that you tend to bond with your colleagues more than with your actual spouse because you are at work more than you are at home. That is what mostly ruins your marriages. Infidelities at workplace. Think about it. Try and build something together. At least try. β¨οΈππ€
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Yet your picture is apart.
I guess you meant i dont show him? If so, its true. He is an actual synonym for anonymous online. He hates internet and doesnt want to be a part. I respect that. And he respects my decision to involve myself in it. And we live a completely happy lifes as such. π€πβ¨οΈππ½π½πβ¨οΈππ€
But I dont keep online long either. I tend to get bored fast... I have been on and off how I feel like. It will happen that you may not see me again online for a very long time. Thats what I do... lol
I've heard shit like this all the time. From many women back when I use to instaspygram. They would always post these sayings & stuff along the lines of what your saying but they all had one thing in common their pics are them alone. Now i've heard tons of different reasons including the one you said.
I always say if you can't show that you don't stand alone no matter what the excuse is doesn't matter. He could dress up like doink the clown, wear a ski mask, contact lens, & be on stilts it don't matter. If you can't show you don't stand alone then you are alone as portrayed.
When I was with someone I am the same way don't want my face shown be known yadayada you know what I did?
I dressed up as scream & stood on stilts making myself 8ft tall. The photos were funny but they knew she never stood alone there was always a killer beside her lol.
I guess you show your picture online?! Or you are just an AI magician? I dont force anyone to show their face but I dont have a problem showing mine. Ill show him when you show your face... My man is not like that he doesnt fool around much. And what is so wrong if he doesnt want to be shown?! I have a husband and he stands next to me all the time. I dont need to prove anything to the online community what I dont feel fit. Same as all of you protecting your identities I have every right to protect his if its his wish... I still come here with my real name, face and life.
As I said I dressed up as scream you've seen the movies right? No AI just a cheap halloween costume from party city & some stilts. It's not fooling around it's just showing she ain't alone. I don't want to be shown & nothing wrong with that & of course it's nothing to prove online I didn't do it because of proving anything to anyone or because it gives the false representation online that shes single & probably making it up like most girls do. It was just because I wanted to.
So no matter where she puts em up, what she represents with her own ideologies in her blogs posts, tweets, fb you get the social network apart. It's just known she don't stand alone. Of course I didn't have to do that being I want to be as anon as I can be. But I did because I support her. Theres no right or wrong really I just don't let my own fears stop me from supporting what I care for which in that past scenario was her.
It does look funny though every pic theres some giant looking like scream holding a bloody knife. I use to laugh at the comments do you have an older sister who is that? I was covered head to toe they never saw my skin or knew my real height. It's funny don't ya think?
Its cool. You do you... I would have laughed yeah... and I wouldnt have any problem with it either. He is just not our kind... because maybe me I would have done the same thing in your shoes. We aint all the same. I dont think me saying im married outloud here in Nostr is for any benefit of mine. But I still post it. Because im not single. To be honest I think single ladies will have much more benefit from social media as Nostr and the rest. I could have chose to lie and say im single and be vile but im not like that. I dont have interest in false representation. I want people to follow me who share same insights into life as mine. Im not searching for a possible suitor. I am fine.
Of course it's more beneficial for a woman to look single on social media so she gains more traction it's a common practice for profit. Saying it doesn't mean anything at all except your being honest. You can lie which would be unfortunate for those who do as they hurt everyone around them.
You don't have to be searching for a suitor I know that. Yeah it's good to meet people online with same common interests, discuss ideologies, & share insights.
Yeah i learned long time in my life that lying isnt my strong suit. I met Karma as a child. And I live by laws of Karma. She is my best friend ππ€β¨οΈ