Could be your relay set. Don’t know what shroomslab.net or stoner.com are. Did you pay the admission for the paid relays?
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I just found them from a listing but it’s possible!! I disconnected from them so I’ll see how it goes. Thank you!!
Definitely check the websites for the paid ones and make sure you’ve paid for your npub to get write access.
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Thank you so much that might be an issue because I never paid for them