That's the thing, we are indeed all different. I don't consider myself a perfectionist by any stretch, but I have been described as odd and weird more times than I care to remember. Ever since I was very small I've always felt "Different" if that makes sense. Whenever I try to articulate this, I say I'm not "Normal", if that's ever met with the response "Oh, you're special then", that really makes my blood boil. No, I'm not special, I'm just neurodivergent!