🔮⬇️ tarot:

the power of saying no. generally, the reason "bullying works" is because most assume harassment and constant bombardement with cruelty and slander creates an environment where eventually, you will capitulate to the compliance demand. even if it is "love bombing" or if it is "profit driven". sometimes the most powerful medicine is withdrawing your attention, support, visibility, or access to you. sometimes you learn a great deal, and many times, others learn a great deal about themselves and others they believed to be allies. nothing creates a new perspective like the one who held it all together, on do not disturb. in those situations, many will panic, become desperate, or lash out in anger - and the entitlement emerges. "how dare you not serve me". the very class which most depends on immigration labor misappropriating their politics onto it - the wealthiest who use all of the goods and services in hospitality, real estate, banking, and luxury markets - trying to erase those who do their dirty work for them. i understand predatory domestic situations - but your inability to respect one another is learned behaviour, and ultimately that rich way of life vanishes when the labor evaporates. similarly, those who prey on the good-will of those who support them and protect them: consequences run both ways. honesty about that situation is rare. the reality is: the oppressed are used to oppression - the spoiled are much more surprised by being left to their own devices. ever watched schitts creek? there is no reasonable argument to delay citizenship status for those who are de facto citizens. saying no also forms new pathways about your own capability; we fear saying no because of the retribution of those who feel entitled to our yes. surviving the no is powerful emotional health and psychological wellness support, something you cannot learn until you do it. NO. i am not leaving. NO i am not doing that. NO you may not. NO. reincarnation is not possible for a limp compliant who never practiced no. some choices are being made, some slowly, and there is an impishness to the energy which is teaching a lesson. be careful about how seriously to take life: you might be so reactionary you hurt a silly child with the reaction of a violent adult. silliness is irritating to the humourless, desperate, violent. someone without a moral compass, greed has taken hold, they are always creating victim scenarios for themselves, someone who will always sell you out while fronting loyalty until they get there. you always thought it was your mom doing something, when really it was your feminist dad. you might find yourself recalibrating. you might find yourself asking "do we want to rebuild the temple again"? you do not need to decide today - careful what you tolerate about feeling "flexible". you might find yourself instantly returned to the doom loop if you decide your boundaries are not important and you allow that manipulator back in without any changed behaviour.

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