Subnostr

I dated and am still in a relationship with my wife who had two kids when I met her. I think it’s unfair to the children to date someone with kids if you’re not planning on being around for them consistently. Of course dating the person might not work out, and that’s unfortunate but I think the mindset is still important.

Nosnevets 2y ago

I was planning to marry her🤷🏽 she's the one who left.

Even so, now they live with their dad, but when he's at work they're at the house because they still see my mom as grandma🤷🏽

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Jac 2y ago

It’s possible to curate your family. My kids’ grandma is the mother of my wife’s ex-husband, a man we have no contact with. She’s cool, he isn’t. The kids are raised and it’s all good. I suppose they never knew any different and that’s just fine.

Nosnevets 2y ago

That first sentence is gold.