Any lightning wallet should be able to send zaps.

To receive zaps publicly, you need a wallet that has nostr capability. I've only tested WoS for this but you can anonymously receive zaps using any LN URL capable wallet.

In Wallet of Satoshi, go to the settings menu & click the login button at the bottom to add an email address. Enter the emailed code in WoS.

On the WoS home screen, click receive & then select the third tab (lightning address). Copy the top address that looks like an email address.

Stick that into your profile settings on Damus where it refers to lightning (there should be 2 fields - I've never used Damus tho). Post your updated profile settings & you should be good to go.