I think we need to find a solution to automatically move, at least once, if a group gets banned from a relay. Based on the user interviews we have been doing this is a huge concern for stewards of Facebook groups and other big tech platform. Many of them have had their groups shut down before with no explanation and no recourse. Being able to give them an answer like “on Nostr the relay can boot you off but generally all your groups members will move over to your back just fine” would be a big sell.

Having a backup relay that you hit when the main relay is down or your group data disappears doesn’t seem like it’s too much to ask. Like on app launch if you can’t refresh data from the main relay grab the kind 39000 from the backup relay, see if it still has the main relay listed as the main relay. If it does, great, it must just be an outage. But if an admin has updated the metadata to indicate a new main relay you can just update your local group state to point to the new relay. The user doesn’t necessarily even need to know it has happened.