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The most important part of becoming an adult is dealing positively with the trauma of your youth. I didn't realize this until I was in my 40s. Don't be me. Be early.

Alejandro Muyshondt 2y ago

Shitty upbringings can make your life miserable, if you don't deal with them past your 40s.

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Xolotl ⚡ 2y ago

And more importantly if you don’t deal with it before you become a parent the trauma gets passed down, even unconsciously. I’m learning this the hard way! 💛🙏⚡️

Alejandro Muyshondt 2y ago

Sadly, yes. So better heal yourself before becoming a parent.

J 2y ago

Becoming a parent allowed the healing for me. The selflessness required, in my experience, allowed forgiveness to happen.