According to Coracle, I have only 1 chat and either that one is both nip4 and nip17 or it's the same nip4 I also see among the many other chats I see on noStrudel.

DMs a mess.

On Chachil.chat I see no DMs at all but found that they need to be switched on in the settings ... which I did but still can't see DMs at all.

DMs a mess!