Hi mate 💜⚡️🤙

BlueWallet:

Onchain = non-custodial

Lightning = custodial

Phoenix for example:

Phoenix is a non-custodial LN Wallet.

You can send/receive LN & onchain.

For onchain they will do the swap.

With Phoenix you open a real LN Channel to the ACINQ Node. So your Smartphone becomes a LN Node. Really nice.

Blixt:

Of course a really nice non-custodial, but a little more for the advanced user.

There are other non-custodial Wallets too.

For example Breeze & Muun.