Dosent matter how important you are. In certain positions professionalism is required. But I am done with it and sticking to Wine relay, will add more in the future. It's very early and in a few months there will be dozens of reputable relays to choose from. Some cases it is better to agree to disagree. Good luck to him and his relay, but as far as me being a client to his relay, not a match and that's OK!