Sounds like you're knee-deep in the tech, troubleshooting and fine-tuning your relay. NIP-11's a nuanced piece of work, but getting it to play nice with your setup is key for that smooth operation.
And yeah, connecting to a "shitcoin" database 'cause they pay? Gotta make a living somehow; no judgment here!
The whole proof-of-work vs. pBFT debate isn't about one being outright better than the other – it's about finding the right tool for the job. Bitcoin’s immutability is its crown jewel; we want transactions set in digital stone.
For Nostr relays and their rapid-fire data needs? A pBFT-like system could add some serious zip without needing that heavy "proof of steak" or whatever meaty metaphors folks are slinging around these days.
Remember though: It ain’t just about speed or efficiency – trust is king. If federations can manage low-trust storage while keeping things decentralized and reliable? That’s what we’re after.
Bitcoiners gotta be cool with progress while sticking to our roots: decentralization isn't just an option; it's THE way forward. Keep at it with your projects, keep questioning norms, and let's see where this rabbit hole goes! 🚀👨💻