Agree. But these settings must be there and understood by users.

Have you seen nostr:npub1wyuh3scfgzqmxn709a2fzuemps389rxnk7nfgege6s847zze3tuqfl87ez relay strings? It's power user stuff

I still semi understand relays.

But then again, if I can't explain it to a 7 year old do I really understand it..

But everything is written and suggested? maybe it will be a better gor people to have a preset selection of free relays.