Not okay, nap
Discussion
Both could be defined as self defense. But that’s irrelevant as nap is for 14 year-olds. Successful peoples and cultures grow. This will inevitably put them in conflict with each other. This means some type of arbitration War is the last argument of kings.
Success is a middle age concept.
Do you have children?
I don't see how it's relevant
In ancient indo-European languages, “to be” was synonymous with “to grow”. This is not a concept that emerges from the Middle Ages. It emerges from nature itself. Successful being is growth. Success is not defined by people. It’s a natural and objective standard. Success is just the word we’ve assigned to that natural standard.