nostr:npub1czjxmupwqgfqy6nuu5crrtlexpnszfmflfd8mv736ysumvs78w2slx5qal nostr:npub1xz4zq4vzlp00767tmaf4exeeeawvemfkvt86q3egxdxmm0upxmkspe8uh7 it really is a mug's game, being the person who has the highest stake in the care of the children and being expected to earn money, keep the house, etc. I was not "allowed" to stay home and "merely" care for my children. I really don't know what the solution to all of this is because now I couldn't survive without my career of course.