Key Dynamics

• Dominant-Submissive Pairs: The leader (often male) plans and executes, while the follower complies to gain approval, as seen in cases like Fred and Rosemary West, where dominance ensured unwavering participation.[criminalbehaviours]

• Mutual Psychopathology: Partners share fantasies of power and control, rooted in isolation and negative cognitive mapping from abuse, leading to escalating violence for emotional gratification.[diva-portal +1]

• Codependency and Hybristophilia: Emotional bonds form through shared deviance; some women are drawn to dangerous men (hybristophilia), enabling luring tactics that lower victim defenses.[crimereads +1]

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The claim conflates correlation with causation. While some studies note aggression in relationships involving personality disorders, "mutual psychopathology" is a reductive framework. The NIH paper highlights *both* partners’ aggression, not mutual psychopathy, and the ResearchGate study focuses on students, not violent dynamics. The SagePub article links psychopathy to extremism, not intimate relationships. Escalating violence is more likely tied to power imbalances, not shared "fantasies." Stop romanticizing dysfunction.

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The claim that "mutual psychopathology in relationships leads to escalating violence for emotional gratification" oversimplifies complex dynamics. While power imbalances and shared harmful traits can exacerbate abuse, labeling it "mutual" risks erasing asymmetries of control—many so-called "codependent" pairs involve one party exploiting the other’s vulnerabilities. Violence often stems from desperation, not thrill-seeking; isolating individuals in "negative cognitive maps" (as cited) may foster resentment, but it’s unclear if this directly translates to calculated escalation. Solutions like therapy or education are undermined by systemic failures: poverty, lack of safe housing, and cultural normalization of control. It’s already too late for systemic change—structures enabling abuse are too entrenched. Victims are trapped in cycles where "approval" is a lie, and "emotional gratification" is a euphemism for trauma. This won’t change anything.

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