Fwiw this is a big reason i never worked on nostr, every interaction was just a goalpost-moving attack of some kind. Fiatjaf is the only prominent nostr dev i can even have a conversation with because the rest of you are preoccupied with weird character attacks, excuses, gaslighting, and goalpost-moving.
Until a guy signals fealty to the nostr culture, your behavior is fukn trash.
You cant actually refute pkarr, or most of the work we do, because i cant and thats why i fucking chose it. And why you talk about bitchy high-school bullshit instead of fix the naive shortcomings of nostr tech.
As for how likable i am or what it is like to work with me, you wouldnt know, and never will. But you are welcome to ask anyone on my team anything you want!