We use our relay exclusively with no issues.
i think a lot of my slowness is coming from nostr:npub16fcy8ynknssdv7s487nh4p2h4vr3aun64lpfea45d7h4sts9jheqevshgh as soon as i removed that relay, content loaded and im also able to type without stutters. *shrug*
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My very unscientific method was to remove relays until snort was fast. Then add relays back until things slowed down. It could be just because #14 was Relayable and not specifically Relayable itself. I will test more over the weekend when I have time.
Speaking of SNORT, the app is unusable right now under Umbrel. I updated to latest version hoping it would make it more stable and it happened the opposite, a lot more buggy.