Exactly. We (me and my wife) solved it with my parents and parents of my wife. It's not generational problem, it's family problem. Always was, always will be.
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A lot of Boomers have no kids and just live off of other people's kids. Nearly ¼.
That was the actual betrayal. Set up a system based upon transfers from children to their parents and then skip having children.
If you have no kids, you are paying for services when you get older. Services that get VERY expensive, than otherwise are offered to you by your kids. All younger generations need is to offer those services, have high prices and take their money. At the end, it can cost them way more than having kids and service can be way worse than one offered by a kids in decent family.
Not having kids is not winning it's loosing.