My ex who I dated for like 5 years tried adding me on Facebook. I click denied because that women is a literal succubus and mentally broke me. During covid-19 lockdowns. She got pregnant and gave me a ultimatum. Get vaccinated or she was getting an abortion as at the time unactivated people were not even allow to leave their house. I can assure you I'm not vaccinated so you can imagine what happened to that baby and relationship...
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Yeesh
I'm always curious when I see stories like this...why couldn't you see the red flags sooner?
My first romantic relationship was awful, and I think it was a couple things:
I had some sort of white knight ideal where I saw a girl in a bad situation and thought that I could come to her rescue. I know now how immensely stupid and self-serving that attitude is, after a lot of reflection on what went wrong. That'd be a wall of text. But to the point of red flags, one can overlook some pretty bad stuff if you see her as a victim and yourself as the hero.
The other thing is that when I had enough time in the relationship, it started feeling like "This is it. How could I break this up and start this process all over again with someone new?" I think we're wired to couple and start a family. Spending enough time with a person, even the wrong person, I felt plugged into them. This goes back to the mindset from the start. I was not consciously taking dating seriously as a path to marriage and family. So I didn't respect the power of romantic involvement.
Thank God this all happened when I was much younger and not to the degree of OP (sorry to hear about that, OP). So I had time to reflect and approach things the right way. Hope this note helps someone in a similar situation.
I legit thought I was going to marry her. The first red flag should of been that her grandfather was head of his local masonic blue lodge 😂
This story says more about you than her
It says I listen to my doctor over a narcissistic which 😅
I'm sympathetic to the child
Child's dead 😂
I can see why you needed to get it off your chest, but not how you can laugh at the fact.
I can laugh all I want. I'm not the one who got 4 covid shots and have heart problems for the rest of my life 😆. She also sold all her bitcoin I bought her when it was under $5000 😆. You can't help stupid 😅
Its just gotta weigh heavy on you considering you valued ur kid getting killed over getting a shot.
gggaaaaaiiiiishhe 😟