If you have been in Bitcoin for more than one cycle and still don't have a KYC-free stack then you need to get on it.
Try nostr:nprofile1qqsgqfapsalnnesrmt7xxfu7qp95akwlscw33n5pm8zrclt3xhdg7egprdmhxue69uhhyetvv9ujucnfw33k76twwpshy6ewvdhk6qgawaehxw309ahx7um5wghx6at5d9h8jampd3kx2apwvdhk6tcpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerpd46hxtnfduhscyvr9p or Robosats or next time you go to a meetup ask your fellow Bitcoin buddy to sell you some sats for Cash.