Also Oobiyou's note you screenshotted is only available on nostr.wine, relay.nostr.band, nproxy.kristapsk.lv, tmp-relay.cesc.trade, search.nos.today, ca.relayable.org, purplerelay.com, soloco.nl and some other less known ones. Looks like only Nostr.wine is on your list. Can you check if your phone is receiving notes from them on your relay list page?