changing your NIP-05 domain from nosterplebs.com to jesw.xyz seems to me like the best option.

there's some work required on your site, not sure about your hosting situation, but here's a guide that seems to hit all the steps for a few different setups:

https://orangepill.dev/nostr-guides/guide-to-verify-nostr-profile-nip05-identifier-with-your-domain/

what you want to happen is for a client to find what is currently served at https://nostrplebs.com/.well-known/nostr.json?name=mrjakewoodhouse but at your domain.

the name associated with your hex pubkey can be anything, if you also wanted to change that from "mrjakewoodhouse".